Frequently Asked Questions


What’s the dress code?

Please dress in dark tones and cocktail or semi-formal attire for our Ceremony and Reception. Lighter tones will be reserved for the Bride and Groom to achieve stylistic photographs and for ease of locating the couple in a crowd.

Acceptable attire for men includes black or navy blue (not royal blue) dress pants, black chinos, black or dark grey button-down or collared shirt, and dark-colored close-toed shoes.

Acceptable attire for women includes black, navy blue (not royal blue), or dark grey dresses that reach at least mid-thigh, black, navy blue, or dark grey slacks, black, navy blue, or dark grey blouse or sweater, and dark colored close-toed shoes.

If you have any questions on your attire please contact the Bride.

What exactly is “Cocktail Attire”?

Cocktail attire for a wedding balances dressiness with comfort, being more formal than casual wear but less so than black-tie. It encourages a polished appearance while allowing for personal style.

Here's a general guide for men and women:

For women

Dresses: Options include knee-length, tea-length, midi, or even knee-length dresses. Dresses with details like lace or an asymmetrical hem are suitable. A black cocktail dress is a classic choice.

Alternatives: A tailored jumpsuit or a skirt and blouse combination are also acceptable, particularly in refined fabrics like silk or chiffon.

Shoes: Heels are popular, but dressy flats or embellished loafers are also appropriate.

Accessories: Enhance your look with tasteful accessories such as statement earrings, a clutch, and refined jewelry.

For men

Suit: A well-fitting suit in a neutral color like navy or charcoal is a traditional option.

Shirt: A crisp button-down shirt is recommended, in white or a light color.

Tie: A tie or bow tie adds polish, but it's not always required.

Shoes: Classic leather dress shoes like Oxfords or loafers are essential, typically in black or brown.

Accessories: Refined accessories such as a pocket square can add sophistication.

Things to avoid

Overly casual attire: Items like jeans, T-shirts, and sneakers are not suitable.

Overly formal attire: Tuxedos and floor-length gowns are too formal.

Distracting patterns and colors: Avoid overly bold designs.

Excessive accessories: Skip overly large or numerous statement pieces.


Will parking be available?

Yes! The venue has a private parking lot with handicap parking available. Cars may stay overnight in this lot until 10am on Monday morning.

Where should we stay?

With the wedding being bright & early on Sunday morning, some of our out-of-town family & friends may be looking for somewhere to stay prior to or after the wedding. Please reference this page for nearby lodging accommodations.

Will there be an open bar?

The bar will be partially hosted by the Bride & Groom. Once the hosted limit is reached, it will transition to a cash bar. The bar will be stocked with Coors Light, Busch Light, Spotted Cow, and Leinenkugel’s Summer Shandy. Additional alcoholic drink options will include Canyon Road Sauvignon Blanc, Canyon Road Cabernet Sauvignon, Wycliff Brut Champagne, Angry Orchard Hard Cider, and Twisted Tea.

Will there be non-alcoholic beverage options?

Absolutely! We will have signature mocktails, coffee, juice, and water available throughout the Brunch and reception.

Can i bring a plus one?

We are excited to celebrate this special time in our lives with our loved ones who we are closest to. Your invitation will denote if you have received a plus-one.

what food can i expect?

We will have light snacks during cocktail hour (think chips, chex mix, etc.) The reception will have a grazing table, breakfast pastries, salads, salmon board, small sandwiches, and assorted desserts. We will not be able to guarantee that the meal will be gluten-free, dairy-free, or nut-free. Please plan accordingly.

Is the venue handicap accessIble?

Of course! The venue has handicap accessible parking spots, restrooms, and spots at the outdoor ceremony site for a wheelchair to fit in nicely.


are gifts required?

Gifts are always appreciated but never expected. We know that our friends and family are scattered around the world and your presence and well-wishes mean everything to us. If you would like to provide a gift, please see our registry page.

I have a question that isn’t answered here - who should i contact?

You can submit your question using the form at the bottom of the website or contact the Bride and Groom directly.

I’m worried about seeing a certain person/family member there. Who should i contact?

A licensed therapist, please and thank you!